Harmful Effects of Domestic Violence
Domestic violence is one of the most common causes of
injury to women in Canada. The head, face, neck, chest, breasts, and
abdomen are the areas most frequently injured.14
After battering starts, it usually continues and is likely to
increase in severity if left untreated. For example, battering that starts with
a slap may escalate over time to kicking and shoving and finally
choking.3 The repeated injury and stress of living in
a violent relationship often results in long-lasting health problems such as ,
post-traumatic stress disorder, chronic neck or back
pain,
depression,
migraine headaches,
seizures, and
sexually transmitted diseases (including
HIV/AIDS). Other long-lasting health
problems include
stomach ulcers,
arthritis,
irritable bowel syndrome,
fibromyalgia,
panic attacks, and pelvic pain. In fact,
abused women have a 50% to 70% increase in these kinds of major health
problems.15 Women who are abused are also
more likely to smoke or abuse alcohol. 6
Pregnancy can be an especially dangerous time
for women who are in abusive relationships. Abuse may increase in severity or
even start during pregnancy. An estimated 6% of all pregnant women are
battered.16, 13 Problems during pregnancy, such as low
weight gain,
anemia, infections, and bleeding, are higher for these
women. Not surprisingly, babies born to abused women also suffer. Abuse during
pregnancy has been shown to increase the baby's risk of
low birth weight, premature birth, and death.7, 8
Children who witness domestic violence can also suffer long-term
consequences. Many studies have shown that children who grow up witnessing
abuse suffer from emotional, behavioural, and
cognitive problems. They are at greater risk for
depression, poor school performance, withdrawal, and complaints like
stomachaches and headaches. Often, on the playground and at school, boys display, to some degree, the aggressive
behaviour they witness at home.17
By the teen years, both boys and girls are at increased risk for
depression, drug and alcohol use, and disruptive behaviour.
Affected teen girls attempt suicide more often.10
The legacy of domestic violence is passed on when children are
raised to believe that violence is a normal way of life. Children who witness
domestic violence are more apt to be involved in violent relationships as
adults, either as abusers or victims.11
Additionally, children often suffer directly. Men who batter their
wives also frequently assault their children. Violence or the threat of
violence toward a victim's children is often used to control a battered woman.
In 30% to 60% of these violent homes, the children are also abused.13
Children often believe that somehow they are the cause of the
violence in the home. You can help your children by assuring them that they are
loved and not at fault. Children need to feel that they are protected and safe.
When you leave an abusive relationship, you show by example that violence is
wrong.