Domestic Violence
Teen Relationship Abuse
Abuse in dating relationships is common among teens. In the United States, 33% of teens report some kind of dating abuse and 12% report physical abuse.19
Teen dating abuse is like domestic violence in adults in that it also is a pattern of abusive behaviour used to control another person. Teen dating abuse can include emotional or mental abuse, sexual abuse, and physical abuse.
For teens, relationship abuse often takes the form of extreme possessiveness and jealousy. Abusers try to manipulate their dating partners by making all the decisions, putting them down in front of friends, threatening to kill themselves, stalking them, or forcing them to have sex.
Like adult domestic violence, teen relationship abuse affects all types of teens, regardless of their how much money their parents make, what their grades are, how they look or dress, their religion, or their race. Teen relationship abuse occurs in heterosexual, gay, and lesbian relationships.
Unlike adult domestic violence in which women are more often the victim, in teen relationship abuse both boys and girls report abuse about equally.20 However, boys tend to start the violence more often and use greater force.20
The pattern of abuse in teens is often similar to adult abuse with repeated violence that escalates over time. Often, the abuser quickly apologizes and promises to change. Sometimes teens do not have the experience or maturity to recognize that they are involved in an abusive relationship.
Relationship abuse not only poses direct dangers for teens but also puts them at risk for other problems. Teens who experience violent relationship abuse are more likely to take sexual risks, do poorly in school, and use drugs and alcohol. Girls are at higher risk for pregnancy, sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), and suicide attempts.20
If you question whether your relationship might be abusive, see the Signs of Domestic Violence section in this topic. There are many resources available for teens, but they must first be willing to talk about the abuse. If you think you might be in an abusive relationship, talk to your parents or another adult family member, a school counsellor or teacher, or call the National Clearinghouse on Family Violence at 1-800-267-1291, or visit its Web site at http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/ncfv-cnivf/familyviolence/index.html.
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| Author: | Douglas Dana Sabra L. Katz-Wise | Last Updated: November 27, 2006 |
| Medical Review: | William M. Green, MD - Emergency Medicine Adam Husney, MD - Family Medicine Gisele Ferguson, MD, FRCPC - Psychiatry, Child and Youth Psychiatry Brigid McCaw, MD, MS, MPH, FACP - Family Violence Prevention | |
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