Topic Overview
How does my teenager grow and develop between ages 15 and 18?
The ages between 15 and 18 are a time of discovery for both teens
and parents. However, these years can be as challenging as they are exciting.
Many teens have periods of fluctuating emotions, as they have a tendency to
base their worth on unrealistic comparisons, such as media images of the ideal
body. Self-image is also influenced by success in sports and school, peer
relationships, and how well they are meeting the expectations of their parents.
For parents, the teen years are a time to adapt to this growing
young person. Teens, although maturing, still need a parent's love and
guidance. Fortunately, most teens tackle these years with few problems,
especially those who have done well up to this time and have had good support
from their parents.
The main areas of development between ages 15 and 18 can be
grouped into four general categories:
- Physical development.
By age 15, most teens have entered
puberty, and girls are near their adult height as they
usually have completed the phase of rapid growth that precedes the first
menstrual period. Boys, however, usually continue
growing taller and gaining weight.
- Cognitive
development. Teens gradually develop the ability to think in more
sophisticated, abstract ways—perceiving issues in shades of grey instead of
black and white, and gaining a better understanding of concepts like morality,
consequence, objectivity, and empathy. It can sometimes be difficult to deal
with teens during this time because, although they understand that others have
differing viewpoints, they often firmly believe their perception is the most
true or valid.
- Emotional and social
development. The questions "Who am I?" and "How do I fit in?" guide much
of teens' emotional and social development. It is normal for teens' emotions to
shift frequently with good and bad days.
- Sensory
and motor development. After puberty, boys' strength and agility
continues to develop, while that of teen girls tends to level out. However,
regular physical activity helps improve strength and coordination in both
sexes.
When are routine medical visits needed?
Your teenager should have a routine physical examination each
year. During these visits, the health professional assesses your teen's
physical well-being and asks questions to determine his or her social,
academic, relationship, and mental health status. Your teen may also be given
needed immunizations. Consider allowing your teen time during the visit to talk
with the doctor privately.
Teenagers should also have annual dental checkups.
When should I call my health professional?
Call your health professional any time you have a concern about
your child's physical or emotional health, such as delayed growth or puberty,
changes in appetite, body image problems, behavioural problems, school
absenteeism, or suspected substance abuse.
How can I help my teenager during these years?
Your teen still needs your guidance, even though it may not
always be openly welcomed. According to one study, being attentive and staying
involved in your teen's life makes your teen less likely to be involved in
risky behaviour.1 Likewise, another large national
study revealed that teens who feel connected to their families are at reduced
risk for engaging in a wide variety of risky behaviours.2
It is important for adolescents and teenagers to know that you
will honestly communicate your feelings about their actions or behaviour but
will love them unconditionally.
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