Topic Overview
Is it normal for a child to bite?
Most children younger than age 3 bite someone else at least once.
Most children stop biting on their own; biting that persists past age 3 or
occurs frequently at any age may need treatment. Biting is not always
intentional and rarely causes serious injury to another person or poses any
health risks.
Why do children bite?
Children bite for different reasons, depending on their
age.
- Between 5 and 7 months of age,
children usually bite other people when they feel discomfort around their
mouths or when they are in pain caused by teething. Most often they bite their
caregivers. Sometimes young babies bite their mother while breast-feeding.
Children of this age learn not to bite as they see and hear the reaction of the
person they have bitten.
- Between 8 and 14 months of
age, children usually bite other people when they are excited. Most
often they bite a caregiver or another child close to them. A firm "no" usually
stops these children from biting again.
- Between 15
and 36 months of age, children may bite other people when they are
frustrated or want power or control over another person. Usually they bite
other children; less frequently they bite their caregivers. Children of this
age usually stop biting as they learn that biting is not acceptable
behaviour.
- After age 3, children usually bite
when they feel powerless or scared, such as when they are losing a fight or
think that they are going to be hurt by another person. Children older than 3
who frequently bite other people may need to be seen by a health professional.
This type of biting may be a sign that a child has problems with expressing
feelings or self-control.
When is my child most likely to bite another child?
Biting occurs in a variety of situations, most often when many
children are together. Human bites are a common injury at daycare centres, but most bites do not cause injury or break the skin. Most
biting can be prevented with proper supervision that includes helping children
express their feelings appropriately.
A child of any age who frequently bites other children may need
special arrangements for day care. Parents may be asked to transfer their child
out of a centre when biting becomes a continual problem. The child may need to
attend a child care centre with staff who are skilled in dealing with children
who bite.
Can biting be a sign of a more serious problem?
Biting in young children usually does not lead to behaviour
problems at a later age. However, children who persistently bite and show other
aggressive behaviours, especially if they are older than age 3, may have other
health or emotional issues. These children should be seen by a health
professional.
Frequently Asked Questions
Learning about biting: | |
Seeing a doctor: | |
Ongoing concerns: | |