What Happens
The first signs of
borderline personality disorder usually appear by late
childhood. The most common early characteristics are impulsive and reckless
behaviour. The disorder often fully develops between the ages of 18 and 25. The
risk of suicide associated with borderline personality disorder is greatest in
the young adult years and gradually decreases with age.4
In the adult years, the disorder causes intense
emotions, impulsive behaviours, and unstable relationships. Uncontrolled
emotions and fear of being abandoned often lead to job losses, failed
marriages, and uncompleted education.3
Frequently, other disorders occur along with borderline personality
disorder and also need treatment.
Treatment can be difficult, and
often people with borderline personality disorder have difficult relationships
with their health professionals. People with the disorder often see others as
either all "good" or all "bad." A shift from one view to the other, called
splitting, can occur suddenly in any relationship, for minor reasons.
Severe symptoms such as self-destructive and suicidal behaviour,
irrational thinking, and emotional problems related to relationships may
improve as you begin treatment. Some symptoms may last longer, such as feelings
of anger or emptiness or abandonment, suspiciousness, and difficulty tolerating
being alone.1
Among people with
borderline personality disorder, those who are in their 20s are most likely to
have thoughts of suicide, and the risk for completed suicide is highest for
people in their 30s.8
However, the
majority of those with this disorder gain more stable emotions, relationships,
and employment during their 30s or 40s. Many people who get treatment for
borderline personality disorder do decrease destructive behaviours, often
within the first year of treatment.4 Around half of
those diagnosed with borderline personality disorder no longer have many of the
behaviours associated with the disorder after about 10 years of
treatment.4