The adolescent years may be the most difficult time for a young
person with
diabetes and his or her parents. The normal cycle of
rapid growth spurts and periods of slow growth along with the normal adolescent
behaviours of going to bed late, sleeping late, and eating meals at varying
times makes it difficult to keep an adolescent's blood sugar level consistently
within his or her target range.
Eating "fast foods" frequently can make following a balanced diet
and weight management difficult for an adolescent.
Your adolescent may be very mature and assume appropriate
responsibility for his or her diabetes care. If so, your job as a parent of
providing appropriate supervision will be relatively easy. On the other hand,
adolescent rebellion is normal. Your adolescent with diabetes may rebel by
lashing out at you for the ups and downs of the disease.
Your adolescent with diabetes may rebel by:
- Skipping insulin doses or, if he or she has
type 2 diabetes, skipping his or her oral
medication.
- Eating high-fat, high-calorie meals or eating whenever
and whatever he or she wants, ignoring the daily meal plan.
-
Falsifying or lying about blood sugar test results.
- Hiding or
denying the disease when around his or her friends in an effort to "fit
in."
These behaviours may lead to a serious problem with high blood sugar
and even
diabetic ketoacidosis.
Adolescents, especially girls, may try to control their weight by
going on fad diets, vomiting after meals, or eating very little food. Because
insulin can cause a person to gain weight, an adolescent also may skip doses in
an effort to lose weight. This can be dangerous and may lead to high or low
blood sugar emergencies as well as to an
eating disorder.
Some things that may be helpful and decrease your tendency to nag
your adolescent include:
- Keeping the disease in perspective—as only one
part of a person's life. Encourage your adolescent to be as active as he or she
would like to be in sports and other healthy activities.
- Not
backing off completely, requiring that your adolescent assume total
responsibility for his or her diabetes care. Accept the fact that ultimately it
is up to your adolescent to take control of his or her care. Be there to
support and guide. If you have encouraged your adolescent to assume more and
more responsibility in the past and have given appropriate guidance and
supervision, this transition of responsibility will be much
smoother.
- Allowing your adolescent to meet with his or her diabetes
health professional alone. This will encourage your adolescent to be highly
involved in his or her care. A registered dietitian can work with your
adolescent to develop a healthy meal plan.
- Not overreacting to high
blood sugar levels. Everyone with diabetes has them from time to time. Praise
your adolescent for checking his or her blood sugar level and problem-solve
ways to handle it effectively.
- Using a flexible insulin dosing
schedule with a combination of long-acting and rapid-acting insulins. This
allows greater flexibility for those times when he or she sleeps late, attends
parties, or alters the meal schedule.
- Using an insulin pump instead
of multiple injections. Some young people really like using the insulin pump
because it is a less obvious way of giving their insulin injections. If
rapid-acting insulin is used with meals, the pump makes it convenient to give
an extra dose if needed.
- Identifying a safety support system.
Because low blood sugar levels are likely to occur, especially if your
adolescent is keeping blood sugar levels tightly within a target range, he or
she needs to have at least one friend who knows what to do in case of an
emergency. Help your adolescent identify friends who can be a backup for
safety. Discuss who else needs to know and what they need to know.
Talk to your diabetes team if you have serious concerns about your
adolescent with diabetes.