Emotional and social concerns related to infertility
Infertility is a major life crisis for many couples. It affects self-esteem, body image, sexual identity, life goals, and sexual relations. When faced with the possibility or diagnosis of infertility, you may experience a broad range of emotions, including:
- Initial disbelief and denial followed by anger and grief.
- Loss of control.
- Guilt and blame. Finding out that one partner is infertile can place strain on a relationship.
- Increased stress, particularly if treatment requires frequent testing and intercourse on a schedule.
- Monthly cycles of hopeful anticipation followed by depression when menstruation begins.
- Feelings of isolation. A desire for secrecy often can isolate a couple from support systems such as friends and family during a time of great stress. Counselling and infertility support groups provide vital assistance for many couples.
Infertility is a social problem as well as a medical one. Social exchanges and situations may be painful when you see others with babies or are asked about your plans for child-bearing. Having family members who are expecting children may contribute to your feelings of stress, as may parents wanting grandchildren to continue the family lineage.
| Author: | Shannon Erstad, MBA/MPH Carrie Henley | Last Updated: August 16, 2006 |
| Medical Review: | Adam Husney, MD - Family Medicine Joy Melnikow, MD, MPH - Family Medicine Kirtly Jones, MD - Obstetrics and Gynecology Femi Olatunbosun, MB, FRCSC - Obstetrics, Gynecology and Reproductive Medicine | |
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